The Hardest Virtue

Patience is a virtue. Ever heard that? I have. And I hate it. Mostly because I struggle with it. I was praying about patience in my life this morning and started thinking about this simple statement. Patience is a virtue. We all know what patience is. It is the capacity, habit, or act of.....

Deformity and All

November 8th, 1970. A date that many of you weren't alive in. The rest of you probably don't remember it. It wasn't a special date. For most people. Unless you are named Tom Dempsey.....

Nothing To Prove

Unfocused: I heard something yesterday that made me laugh. It was from a guy that was at a charity auction. There were a bunch of wealthy people there all bidding on these high dollar items to raise money for the kids at a hospital. These.....

The Least

I was up in Rockford Illinois last week. I lived there for a few years during high school and was brought up to speak to their youth group. I love going there. Always good to do ministry.....

Chicken

If you don't know what has been going on with Chick-Fil-A in the last couple weeks, first crawl out from under your rock, second open a new window and google it....

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Prep Work


I have gotten into woodworking. Not like building houses, but building cabinets, and furniture. I say I am into it, but I haven't really built much yet. I started
reading about it. Then I read more. Then I watched a bunch of videos. Then I read more. There is so much that goes into building a truly solid and beautiful piece of furniture. The weird part is how much prep work you put into it that no one ever sees. The sanding, fitting, glueing, and arranging take up so much time. There is just so much to learn about it. My mother in law is having me build her a cart for her kitchen. It took me 3 hours just to put together a lumber list for the project. Then I have to put together tons of different knowledge just to build one piece. If I miss one small step in prep work at the beginning, I can ruin an entire piece, and not even know it till I am all but done.


Reminds me of ministry. A lot of people go to bible school to be a pastor. They have an idea that it is all fun, and games. That when they finish they will get to go change the world. What they don't realize is all the work that you have to put in. Being a youth pastor seems cool when your a youth. All you see a youth pastor do is be center of attention. Life of the party. What they don't see is the hours upon hours of preparation each week. Preparation that you never notice. Just like a good piece of furniture, you never notice the hard stuff. Just the beauty. It's not even just the sermon prep, or prayer times they don't see. Youth don't see the hour of junk paperwork. Of purchase orders being filled out. Bus drivers being called. Volunteers needing more training on the fryer in the cafe. There is a sad number out there about youth pastors. I have heard lots of different numbers over the years, but it seems to always be about 9 months.

9 months. That is how long the average youth pastor stays at a church. Sad. But I think that number is deceiving. I don't think most of those guys are going on to another church. I think most of them are leaving ministry. Why? Because they never learned about the prep work. I youth pastored for several years, and have nothing but respect for any pastor doing their job right. But one thing that needs to be shown is the prep work. Not just to ministry, but to a true walk with Christ. We all have seen those people that seemingly have the greatest relationship with God. We get envious of them. It always just seems so easy to them. Never angry. Always praying. Never defeated. Extremely humble. Here is the truth. It wasn't easy for them. They just understand prep work. They understand that without the day in, day out humdrum stuff that doesn't always feel good, then they have no foundation. What happens to a Christian with no foundation? They fail, and usually people didn't see it coming. Why? Because they seemed to have it all together. Just like furniture. I could stain and finish a table till it looked perfect. But if I failed on my prep work, there could be a leg that is just an eighth of an inch too short. May look great, but without the prep work it will always be weak and never be reliable. Do your prep work in your walk with Christ. Do your prep work in ministry. Show your congregation and students the prep work. It is the most important part. I'd rather have a table that wasn't as pretty, but was solid than a beautiful piece of wood that rocks back and forth never truly doing what it was created for.

peace - love - recycle

P.S. I have a good friend named Justin. He had a really bad sledding accident this past week and is in the hospital with a very harsh brain injury. Do me a favor and send up some prayers for him. He is breathing on his own now, and responding to some commands, but still has a long long fight ahead of himself. There are people all over the country praying, and if you can take just 5 minutes and pray also, I would really really appreciate it.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Determined

My life seems to be in a constant state of change. I left pastoring about 2 1/2 years ago. In that time I have moved 3 times, met my wife, and got married. And that is just the personal life. In my professional life I have started a ministry, traveled as an evangelist, spoken at school assemblies. Stuff I never thought I would do. God has taken my life and flipped it on its ear for the last couple years. It was just chaos for a while. Now that I am settling down and married, I am traveling a little less and my life seems to be calming down. But that chaos really was incredible when it was there. My life is blessed. Its greater than I could have ever imagined. I have an incredible best friend of a wife. An awesome house. Two great dogs. A family that goes above and beyond. And a ministry that is hard work but blesses me massively. How did my life get here?

I am working with my father when I am not traveling right now. He is a children's pastor (and a dang good one), that is morphing the way he does ministry. This past week I gave the lesson to the kids. It was a seemingly simple message about Moses getting the Israelites out of Egypt. But the theme was determination. As I spoke to the kids I realized how great of a message that is. You see in the church we get a lot of messages about grace, and faith. But seems to me we don't get many messages that are based on the character God calls us to have.

de·ter·mi·na·tion

[dih-tur-muh-ney-shuhn]

the quality of being resolute; firmness of purpose. a resolute movement towards some object or end

We all know God is determined to see His kingdom come. His plans are what is going to happen. But if you look at all the people you consider great, whether in the bible or history or a contemporary friend, they all have determination in common. The message that my dad had me give was so simple, yet affected me greatly. It had two main points. 

1. Deciding its worth it to finish what you've started.

2. Keep doing what God says, because He is God.

Simple right? The story of Moses went from the burning bush till the release of the Israelites. It talked about how Moses was determined to do what God had told him to do. In the face of adversity he kept doing what he had started. Its a simple thing really. So why do we seem to have such a hard time with it? 

When I left pastoring to start Bike For The Light I had a ton of people tell me that I was crazy. Not just to bike thousands of miles, but that what I was doing couldn't work. I am not here to say that my determination was massive, but I knew that God was calling me to do something. For years I had told students that if God calls you to do something, you just do it. But as an adult I realized that my common sense had told God no so many times. I had never felt stronger about what I was doing. I had to do it. When people asked questions (questions that made a lot of sense) about how I would survive, I had to simply say "I am going to keep doing what God says, because He is God." Good christian folk can say amen to that, but they still thought I was crazy. But don't you realize that most of the Israelites probably thought Moses was crazy for asking Pharaoh to let them go?

  • What about Gideon fighting with 300 men? 
  • What about David against the giant? 
  • What about Stephen against the pharisee's? 
  • What about Martin Luther versus the established religion?
  • What about you fighting your own conscience? 

We all have things that we know God has called us to do. But for some reason we are determined that we are right instead of God. That seems to be a harsh way to put it. But if you don't do something that God calls you to do because of any reason......that is what you have done. And determination is like perseverance too. It's not just choosing to do what God calls you to do, but it's seeing it through till the end. 

  • How many missions pledges have been forgotten? 
  • How many coworkers have you quit witnessing to? 
  • How many churches have been walked away from?
  • How many ministries have fallen by the wayside?

This week I have been praying and challenging myself with this, so I thought I would throw it out to all of you. What have you started and forgotten about? What has God called you to do that seemed to crazy to start? If there is one thing that Christ had....it was determination. He was determined to get His message out no matter what the obstacle or cost. He was determined to live every moment for His father. As christians we should be determined to do the same thing every day. Remember the old church song? I am determined to be invincible? Seems like a crazy statement....but if God is for us.....

Be determined to finish what you start for God. Be determined to do it because God asked....and He is God.

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